When's the last time you did something for the first time?

We're back from where I left off on my last digital laundrymat blog post. This is the second post of this segment, and I can confidently say that it's here to stay. You liked the last one [whether you want to admit it or not], so I thought it was only fitting to bring it back. Why aren't you bringing back what others love, as well as yourself. Ok... I'll admit sometimes it's important to protect yourself from others and their opinions, but if something that you're doing is motivating someone else then why are you stopping? I thought the mission was to start and never stop. The mission should never be; to start and then to stop. I wanted to talk to you today, because you looked like you needed some advice, or some type of feeling while you washed your clothes. Sometimes it can get boring when you forget to bring something, to keep yourself occupied while in someone else's occupation. This digital laundrymat is my occupation, but it's an occupa

It's another day. Another PINK day at that. As I'm writing this two things occured to me; I'm beyond tired, and I just saw the numbers 555. If you're unfamiliar with these repeating numbers then I'll help you out. I'll give you a bit of insider insight. These numbers only appear, and are seen when things in your life are shifting. When you're ready for change internally, then your fellow meatsuit has to follow suit externally. This means that most people will never see and or choose, to dig a bit deeper to find true meaning in such synchronicities. So, if you're able to freeze time, in these moments just know that you're meant for greater things. You can only shatter the societal dome, when you're ready to believe that you can do so. I wanted this PINK BLOG POST, to be clarity for those who are feeling six feet under. Six feet under can mean anything, if you're willing to apply it to your own life. Where there is someone feeli

Hi it's me again, amd I'm here doing what I've been doing lately. It's me standing before you... digitally of course... to present you with an invitation. You're probably wondering why I keep inviting you places. Well maybe I'm enjoying your company, and to be honest you're playing your "plus one" status to a tea. Keep coming to my digital events, and you just might rub shoulders with one of the many elites that just so happen to show face at these spectacular events. They say if you're not personally invited to a party, get in where you can fit in... even if that means being the bus boy or bus girl. last time if you remember, Sunday to be exact, I was inviting you to my gym to stretch. Today it's a "bit' different. I'm a girl of scenic views. The same view for too long bores me. So, this is why I need you to get your morning coffee and or tea, so you can digest what I'm waving in your face. I'm inviting yo

You ever wondered why you're always either cold as ice, or feeling like you're walking on ice when around certain people? This feeling seems to overwhelm you most days, if not all days. But you can't seem to figure it out. Or you're avoiding what needs thorough looking into. Why would you consider people to be of any good, if you're constantly feeling lost around them? I thought real friends make you feel whole? Whether you know this or not, the friends that you keep around says a lot about you. Even if you're nothing like your friends, can you say the same after some time? You shouldn't have to question yourself around your so called "friends". Most times you'll get small clues, as to how these "friends" actually are. But it's always you overlooking the facts. Well let me tell you something. You can't deny the facts. Facts will always be nothing but facts. Too many people have ended up in some sticky situation

Hey. Hey. Hey. It's Sunday. I'm curious are you adding Funday within your Sunday? If you're asking me then I'll say no. But not having a fun day, doesn't mean that I'll have an awful day. It just means I'll be relaxing, because if you knew even a sliver of what kind of work I was doing this week, you would totally understand. So here I am typing away the day of!!!! I was thinking...should I open the diner or the laundry mat for the masses. Then I thought of something more. I thought of something even more brillant. I was thinking about inviting you to come stretching with me. Digitally of course. I'm in need of a good deep stretch, because a couple of days ago I fell off my skateboard(which rarely happens), and I scraped my arm, neck and leg, so I've been too sore to stretched. When this happens it really irritates me. Why might you ask? It's because I'm a firm believer in daily strecthing. You'd be surprised at the amount

So... just like the masquerade ball, I got invited to vegas. I was told to let the owners know who would be my plus one, and I couldn't think of anyone but you. You're my plus one. Why vegas... might you ask? We're going to the biggest burlesque show, which means we need to go shopping. We need to blend in. The goal is to look like we're meant for the lifestyle that we're being forced into, because the thing about rich people is that they can sniff you out like a hound dog. We wouldn't want to be kicked out before getting in. Now would we? There's a quote that goes "You never go to a burlesque show to only do burlesque things." No I didn't just make that up... Tonight we're going to be frauds. We're going to have to pull a vegas on vegas. The only way we'll be able to have a good time, is if we act like dogs. A savage dog at that, but this doens't mean we'll act like we don't belong. Like I said we're

I wanted to start a new segment. I was thinking once a week we dive deep into the one and only BARBIE herself. And if you're a guy reading this you can honestly take some notes, because being soft and everything in between never hurts anybody if done right. I think everyone knows that MISS BARBIE had some useful and iconic tips. She taught us to be kind but also in the process of that, knowing your worth is vital. The silliest thing you could ever do in a world like this, is to not know yourself. You instantly become a punching bag to those who also don't know themselves. The thing that'll set you apart from these types of people is; while you're being naive, they're in kahoots with the devil with a plan to take you out. When you know your worth, who can really play you like a game console? I don't know about you, but I'm too busy building my brand to be worried about other people. Get into the habit of only focusing on yourself,because at the

I know that I'm wearing glasses, but what you're doing right now has me seriously questioning my vision. Are you seriously trying to find the good sides in wasteful trash? I mean I'm a recycling diva, but you'll never catch me trying to reduce, reuse or recycle old situations. And when saying situations I mean experiences, people, feelings, distractions,etc. Some things aren't meant for other things. "Trying" to make use of useless trash is definitely not another man's cash and or treasure. The quicker you realize this, the faster you'll wash your hands and keep it pushing. I get it though some trash bins are "easy" on the eyes, meaning it's easy to mistaken some pieces of trash if the situation wasn't all that bitter. Even I have found myself digging in trash cans, because some things were rather sweet than bittersweet. But there are always certain consequences to being useful in useless society. Sometimes having a g

I had to take a pause on this last but tasty blog, because somethings need to marinate, before it can truly end. But then again every ending has another beginning... so where do you think this will lead us? We've made it passed the ballroom. We've managed to fool the guests, but I've failed to see the king or the Queen while doing so. But also when you're at a wealthy and high societal party, the "most powerfuls", are usually placed in a tiny corner... obviously for their own protection. They're placed there, for times like this. It's usually when people of our "nature", are tired of dealing with what we've been dealt. I'm glad that you don't have second thoughts on storming your own personal castle. When you're this close to wrapping up a juicy story, you soon realize there's no way in HELL you can turn back now. You'd be dishonoring your tastebuds at this point. Here's the thing, when you're in

We're lighting up the room with this one. Yeah I'll admit that most times when [three AM] rolls around, it leaves me trapped within my own mind. But something is waking up inside of me. Something is changing, and the only thing that I can do is change right alongside it. You never want to be left behind, when you sense greatness is on it's way to your area. You never want to miss out on an open window. because often do they come, but when they come "man oh man" do they bring about beautiful change. The moment we realize that this is our life, and everyone that surrounds us just so happens to be an outsider, we can begin to create the life that we desire. We have the right to want more. It is our birthright to want more. We deserve more. But if you don't get that simple concept then you'll forever be stuck, and a prisoner to those looking for a cellmate. We have the power to break those chains, and to be free. The question that we're faced

I remember blogging about the signs when dealing with a narcissist. I made two parts in fact. The thing is if you've met a narcissist, you've also met a gaslighter. The scary thing about this is, they're both the same in a way. Their are a bunch of similarites in both of these lunatics. Sometimes you might even find that when dealing with a certain person, they may be exuding both of these nightmares (which is very scary). The thing is if you don't know the signs of a gaslighter, then you'll forever fall victim to their drama and stressful tantrums. You have to understand the way that they think and or act... is far from normal. But this doesn't give them a slap on the back, or a pass in any way. What I've learned about gaslighters is that even though what they bring to the table is beyond normal, they're also aware of how they're acting. A lot of them know how they're treating you, but they all have one thing in common. They REA

If you stopped by the diner last Sunday, and saw that we were closed I'm sorry you didn't get the message in time. I did put in a request for E-messages to go out. I was seeing the fruits of another establishment that had my name on it. Like I said before, when you feel comfortable with how one project is going it's okay to birth something else for awhile. So, since the diner was closed last week, we're serving extras of whatever you ordered. That seems about fair... right? The best thing you can do in business, is to realize that some days you'll have to do more to make up for the days you weren't present. But before we get into a deep discussion, I'm training a new empolyee for the to-go orders (and we all know how hectic the to-go orders can be, especially when it's Sunday.) Okay I'm back with your food and my plate of course. The best advice I can give you is to go for a business that allows you the time, to still connect with your

Circuses are truly scary. They seem to show up but in a undected way... like have you ever seen a circus come to life, or have you just seen it in action. You can feel like something is coming, but you never can guess what. Some deserted lands just scream circus energy. It's almost like magic, how they appear and disappear. It's like saying that magic is in your hands. It's also within you. You can easily speak words into existence with the proper training. You can also tear down what you've built with a no none sense faith and a demented mind. Running a circus can teach you how to walk into a setting, without getting noticed. There's always so much going on at a circus. How could you possibly have time to see everything in one swallow. I'm also floating around spreading the word to come if you dare, but in the process you can't blame me. Don't make me the butt to your problems. I always tell you to pay attention when you enter, becau

I'm bored so let's talk. How are you feeling after the full moon we just had? If you're asking me how I"m feeling... I'm feeling forever drained. I barely did anything today. I always refer to me working too hard, as me running myself into a wall. But it's so true. How far is too far? I'm running on three hours of sleep and it's been a day in a half. You know when you're so tired your spiritual senses become stronger? It's me constantly seeing things. But anyways I wanted this post to be more of a light hearted blog with a splash of motivation. I'm going to digitally talk low, because when the night hits my ears become even more sensitive. I wanted to talk about leaving what you know. What are you going to do when you're placed from where you're at, to where you want to be? Why aren't you working towards something? You can't have what you desire if you're sitting around doubting yourself. When you force yo

It's another thursday... so another day out of the week to be given the courage to change your vision. Just because too much of the world is beyond bleak, doesn't give you the reason and or right to do the same. Some things... I mean most things should never require you to follow suit. When you choose to "follow suit", it's you really being okay with being accustomed to the mediocrities of the world. Instead of calling you a survior, it would only be fitting to call you a settler. You're a disater to oneself, but never a destroyer of both worlds. You have to have laser PINK vision if you're going to make it out alive. Everybody wants to rule the world, but has anyone taken a stand as of now? The world is run by deceit. So what does one do in times like these to transform? It's quite simple actually. You have to become so sick of what's already causing a large amount of stress in your life. Stand up straight, and begin to do more of wh

I had fun last week when I broke down the one and only PARIS HILTON, so I thought that it was only fitting to do it again. Us ladies can be whoever we wish to be. We can also pick and choose what characteristics we like from other iconic women to put our own spin onto it. In order to have taste you have to actually be in tasteful environments more often. You have to see more to know more. You'll have to read a lot more fanasty books to open those mundane senses. You'll never be a "loser' for bringing a book or two with you to run errands. You never know who will be of bore to you. So ait-tee-ways...who do you think I'm introducing you to on my [ItGirl] Platform? Who could stand next to MISS paris herself and be just as iconic? If you guessed Cher Horowitz's from clueless, then I sense that you're going to be a prominent starlight in the future. I highly recommend for you to watch the movie CLUELESS, if you're reading this while being

Hi... welcome back. I thought that I'd switch it up, and start something new. I was taught to birth new ideas, when your other ideas are already set in stone. When you get used to one routine, then it's okay to venture off and start something new, but this doesn't mean that you abandon your first project. I was asking myself last Sunday, how can this Sunday be different. So, then I started thinking how can I be more relatable, because you can never be too relatable. If you don't take anything from this blog post, then take this. The world is forever growing as well as changing. Your business after awhile will go to sh!t, if you're not making an effort to get to know your audience. But anyways do you like my new ditigal laundrymat? I promise you it's a safe place. I remember when I had to go to laundrymats when I was younger, there were always those super loud annoying kids. Let's not discuss how these random laundrymats had several homeless peop

I need you here to hear me. But I don't think I can actually be myself unless it's after hours. I want to feel something. I want to feel anything, even if it means me tearing my own brain out. I want this to be over. How does one want their timeline to be over, but at the same time me wanting to fight is somewhat tasty. Do you think something can truly save you, because people always tell me to look towards certain places for saving. I want this segment to be a safe place for all of us to scream... digitally. You want to know why I chose purple for this particular segment? The reason is I see something in purple that you don't . I see my past, present, and future when I look into the color purple. It's me seeing a hand drawing me in closer. Purple makes me scratch at my soul while looking for nearby paper to bleed on. I wish nights weren't nights. I promise I adore nights, because when the world sleeps I can stay up while energetically feeling othe

Thank you for reading my previous blog post where we discussed the one and only MISS PARIS HILTON. I was thinking what can I talk about on this lovely Friday, and then it hit me, if I traveled back to my roots to break down the characterisitics of an iconic woman... why not do the same for an iconic man! See I'm such a genius. But who would be fitting for the ItGirl Platfrom? Who could teach us what to look for, when we're on our strategic man hunt? Ladies the only way to have your way, is by going for the guy that's worth your life and or time. Too often we see women steadily choosing the wrong guy. It's unappealing to be honest, but I'm not here to judge. I'm here to give a bit of insight. So sit tight for a few minutes... please. ladies and gents, please put your hands together for Mr. Christian Grey. And hey before you say he's a fictional man, wait a bit longer before you race off with your horses. Who said you couldn't pluck char

I'm standing on my word. I remember several blogs back I said that I would introduce Paris Hilton onto my platfrom. That is the Itgirl Platform that is. I can honestly say I miss breaking down women on my platfrom. But not like that!!! I swear. "Breaking down", meaning what can us ladies learn from MISS PARIS HILTON herself. I've been bl,ogging about everything, because the biggest mistake you could ever do is put yourself into a box. That's the quickest and easiest way to burn out and go crazy. So ladies and gents let's respectfully break down MISS HILTON. Ladies you need to understand this is your world, and everyone around you including your boyfriend/husband is just living in it. Come to the realization that anybody that you've invited into your life is a guest, and know that they're lucky to be standing in your presence. Paris knows herself, and when a lady knows herself who can really tell her about herself ? Be iconic in any and every

I'm totally aware I didn't post this blog yesterday, but I was completely out of my mind, so I needed to step away. Sometimes if your mind goes elsewhere the best thing to do is to let it. So, anyways I'm here and the best thing I can do is, put my brave face on while participating in the "hustle culture", meaning me sucking this day dry with constant productiveness. As you know my PINK WEDNESDAY'S and PINK TALKS/THURSDAY'S are a cute vibe. I like to give advice and or motivation but of course you can't present such words without cute gift wrapping paper. But today I feel the vibe is going to be different... a little more direct, because too often do I see people prentending to be happy. Pretending to be happy isn't the same as truly being and feeling happy. Your body knows the difference between faking something and actually feeling and or being something. Don't ever think you can out smart your body. I mean you can fake it until yo

Depression is always an uphill battle, but it's also like reaching a certain point, and feeling your body give up. So then it's you falling... and falling. Oh did I mention you're still falling? There's times where everything around you goes pitch black, so it leaves you wondering if you'll be dropped off in an unknown bottomless pit. Other times it's a rabbit hole, where it feels like your mind is slipping away with each scream. There are also times where it's you getting bruised, because the way you fell was too sloppy. What does one do if they're so used to the highs and the lows? Maybe it's you writing for better days? Maybe you begin to pull out the best poems and or quotes written by the best minds with the craftiest hands? Or it's you looking out the window scanning your view, to see anything that might be a sign that everything is going to work out. To me it's always me coming back to this song, by Miley Cyrus. But I also

Just like you I'm suprised I'm even open. I adore this segment, so I try my best to stick with the things that brings me the most joy. But the way I was feeling early this morning, you would've thought I would have skipped past this blog post. But a positive outlet is always a good outlet. To be honest I don't know what I'm doing. Some days I feel on top of the world, and other times It's me being okay with giving myself back to the earth's grounds. I'm wondering if I can even muster up a false prophecy for you, or shall I let you tell me something? But maybe I should talk of something motivating, because isn't why you come? Or do you come to watch me self destruct? I say and feel like this, because it seems like we can't even express ourselves anymore. There's too many false gods making it known that if you show any expresssions such as; doubt, sadness, anger, confusion, etc, than you must be of something wicked. It's the people

Are you up for good reasons, or are you up because your mind won't shut up? Because if this is you, then this is also me. I got in bed with the intentions on going to sleep, but nope. It was me laying in bed constantly throwing myself over a bridge. It was me causing imaginary problems, or feeding existing problems. It's always when the lights go out that I mentality can't seem to stay still. It's the dark thoughts that consumes my head. It's worse when you can't talk to no one, because they're either emotionally dead or fake religious. Each night I find myself going to sleep later and later. I still manage to get up early, but not as early as I would've wanted to. I honestly just want to scratch my face off, and maybe go for another identity. Who else feels this way?There has to be others on this sadistic frequency.I don't really think I'm the only one experiencing these feelings. It's the feeling of regret, but what did I do?

Heyy I don't have much time to talk, but I'm here to present to you this invitation. I've been invited to walk amongst the wealthy, and it was only fitting that I brought you guys along. All of you are indeed my plus ones. You've been rocking with me, so here's my gift to you. I'm so glad I checked my mailbox sooner than later. I was so close to bringing back the circus for this weekend, but I saw that the biggest and darkest masquerade was being thrown the same day, and I couldn't miss out. I couldn't miss my opportunity to dress up and disguise myself at the same time. So with that put your mask on, and make sure it doesn't slip off I hear there's a reward to the best dressed, with the best unknown identity. We're hiding behind a disguise, you'll never feel me watching you. Your demise will be tragic when in the presence of me. This night will be magical. I can't tell you if that'll be of good magic or dark magic,