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If you spent a small portion of your free time binge watching "Scandal", then can we be friends? You know what I think we already are friends, probably BFF'S , ooohhhh or maybe you're my soul tribe. I want to quickly say thanks for stopping by,you're so gorgeous. Just know I can feel your energy, from a million starlights away. I know you need posts like this, so that's why I buckle down everday to create content. Now...... let's get into MISS OLIVIA POPE. She's influential in everything that she does. Everything that she wears is captivating, just ask Mr. President. She always knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to get it nor ask for it. And what makes her lethal to the bone, is that most times she won't ask, she just takes. WHAT OLIVIA WANTS OLIVIA GETS! No questions ands or buts. Olivia dares to be different, even while being a women at a prestigious job. What notes can you take before I love you and leave you? Be cold, becaus

Ladies how many times have you've gotten ran over? How many times has someone you know tried desperately to make you feel bad for saying no, even if by you saying no was great for your mental health? See us women are natural born nuturers and others know this? In fact they'll try and use that against you.Sometimes it'll even be unhealed women throwing shots at you. See your acts of kindness could also be your own acts of your downfall. Being too sweet can sometimes become a bad thing when given to the wrong person. Not everyone you meet will have your best interest at heart!I'm pretty sure you've heard that before. But I need you to listen, because anything that has been repeated constantly has some truth to it, backed by several experiences. Being a one woman show is tough, because it leaves you vulnerable to critism, and for some reason society is HELL BENT on directing critism towards women of all walks of life! Now some "critism" can be he

To all my girlfriends out there people will always have many comments regarding 'who you are meant to be". knowing that it's not who you are meant to be, but who they want you to be. They will swear on everything that they love ( which might even be little to nothing), that they know what's best. They will also judge you for wanting to put your best foot forward ( because they aren't appreciative of a stylish pair of shoes.) I use to find it hard to believe that there are people who are able to see the potiential that you possess , before you see it in yourself. These people also are willing to waste their own life and or potential commenting on your life. I'd highly recommend that you consider them to be a fan. BUT NOT ALL FANS MEAN YOU GOOD. It's like society wants everyone to be the same. I can't stress this enough, ladies we were never meant to be the same. How spooky that would be if we all were the same, did the same things, talked the

Ladies who's a blond bombshell that comes to mind when you think of the 90's? If you instantly thought of Marilyn Monroe... well you're absolutely right, but this isn't about her as of right now sad to say... ( I adore Marilyn by the way and a lot can be learned from her, so look out for her in the future because THE FUTURE IS ALWAYS FEMALE!), so anyways if you're sweeter than sweet and when asked the question ANA NICOLE SMITH CAME TO MIND THEN YOU MY FRIEND DESERVE TO HAVE THE GROUNDS THAT YOU WALK UPON KISSED BY PRINCE CHARMING HIMSELF( whoever that prince/princess may be for you, because we don't judge here.) No spotlight is needed when it comes to MISS ANA NICOLE SMITH! SHE IS THE SPOTLIGHT! I remember first hearing about her in a youtube video by Karine Alourde (you should definitely check her out ) , while at work , and instantly falling her love with her and her story. Ana were dealt tragic cards from the beginning but somehow someway managed

When building your brand of any sorts, it requires you to treat Saturdays and Sundays like a Monday- Friday. Especially being an entrepreneur. There are no days off when you're trying to become someone that you've never been. It needs you showing up everyday with the same vision and with the same approach constantly, because if you're going after a certain goal,but if your aim is inconsistent then your goal obviously isn't going to get execution.It's common sense, you get what you pay for. Hitting a tree but striking it any and everywhere isn't going to make the tree fall. And shall I also add that it isn't going to make the tree fall any faster. But hitting the tree in the same spot everyday consistently... well nature has to pay it's dues.The tree being your goal and your striking being you showing up everday even when you don't "feel" like it. There's no other way! Waiting to feel energized to do anything will keep you at b

Ladies if you haven't heard of Dita Von Teese...it's ... ummm ... fine. It's fine... I mean that gives me a chance to formly introduce her to the Girl Brand ... right? Well let me introduce Miss Dita Von Teese. The woman society 'hates', but CAN'T seem to get enough of. She's the girl that guys say, they don't want their current/ future woman to be like, yet they sit front row at every tour she goes on. I mean make that make sense,please, because if you were to ask me for my opinion, I'd say that, that sounds like a fan to me... but you know, I could be wrong. Dita is also the woman that self hating women , constantly tell her to love herself. As if loving yourself means to not go on the journey that requires you to go within to seek admiration for one's self. It takes a strong woman to be able to do what Dita Von Teese does. We All know this! Ladies she's the prime example as to "living in your Dark Femininity". She&#

Ladies, whats wrong with me... why do I feel like this , I'm going crazy. Just kidding can you guess who we're shining the light on today ? If that first line didn't give away the answer... maybe it's time to divertisfy your playlist ( a tad bit I mean nobody's judging... this is a safe place for the ladies of course.) I want this to be a place where we can giggle and cry tears of joy, when we finally begin to shed layers upon layers that were placed on our back from society! " I can't just let you run up on me like that, all on me like that ". Does that sound familiar, or are you still confused? OK I'LL JUST GRAB THE SPOTLIGHT REAL QUICK ( I got it this time... you can finish making your breakfast.) CUE THE MUSIC!!!! Ladies.... May I present to you Miss Rihanna! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 She's all the rage. I mean she's always been the rage. She up

We're often told by grimlin faced guys, that being a women of substance and that being bold is not ok for our role. But what role is that? Even though Shakesphere said "All the world's a stage" , doesn't mean that I'm going to play the role that I've been given. Because it's exactly just that. A role, nothing more. I mean if I'm to be an actress, I'll turn every head and strut like my life depends on it. Because it does. Ladies your life is only meant to be lived on your account. If you were a sucker for Greek Mythology(like I was) you would have known that Persephone - the Goddess of spring learned that even though she was born into her light femininity, she also adapoted her Dark Femininity, in order to become Queen of 'THe UnderWorld.' There are several reasons as to why you should choose to live within your Dark Femininity! *IT FUELS YOUR CREATIVE ENERGY- You have to stop being TOO nice. Yeah it's okay to show yo

Omg you're back....I'm not surprised though, because over here we love to soak in the sweet words from another. Feeling pleasure is normal (so while you read this continue to nibble on that chocolate bar...especially if the ingredients are clean) sorry the holistic healer side of me came out! Anywho... while the sun is still on it's usual hiatus, and the moon is paying it's dues, you can consider yourself luckly. Because you get first dibs on today's read! NICE TOP BY THE WAY, SOPHIA, IT REALLY BRINGS OUT YOUR EYES, WARMS YOUR SKIN, AND DRAWS ATTENTION TO THE NICELY TONED HUES IN YOUR HAIR!!!! Today I'm shining the light on SOPHIE VERGARA. Heyy girl Heyy. ( Can you beautiful ladies help me tilt the spotlight a little) Thanks babes 😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫 OH MY LORD THAT WAS EXHAUSTING BUT WE MANAGED TO SET THE SPOTLIGHT IN MOTION THANKS TO MY SOUL TR

Hi, you're back for more you "greedy" princess. Well no matter what your day has in store for you, I want you to start it with positivity, whether you're just getting out of bed, brushing your teeth, sneaking an extra muffin onto your plate(to be honest grab two while you're at it), or simply you're reading this while at work (please don't get caught, I can't have you getting in trouble because of me!). You know I'm having fun with this. Me uplifting you. I truly find joy in speaking up for women, because I've witnessed too many times seeing a woman get put on the back burner by a "man" or self hating women. I want to start a movement , or even a riot, because who doesn't like a little spice here and there. HELLO SPICE GIRLS!!!!! let's normalize being a "spice girl", in the women's community. Learn to speak up when needed. Lend a hand to another when you see them at an all time low. Cherish th

First off I want to congratulate you...cause girl a lot of women seem to not know the power that they hold. I also want to say you're doing amazing, especially given the fact that you've figured out how to turn your dreams into a reality. And if you're still sitting on that breathtaking idea...I hope by the end of this read, you'll finally take the initative to set your life on fire (In a good way of course). It's already extremely tough being a lady, but being a lady with ambition to become her own boss in a male dominated society can be a dream killer in itself.But obviously it's do-able.I mean look at Britney Spears. You can love or hate her,but why would you want to hate on another women? Society wants you to do that! Society feeds off of women getting put up against another woman,Sometimes being done by other women, and thats so awful to stomach. But you reading this, you're special,and we're here to build each other up through an enormous amou

It's sickening to constantly hear people complain about how bad of a world that we live in, but in return does nothing about it to make the world a better place. Truth be told I was one of those people. Always complaining and laying around quoting "there needs to be change", over and over again. And what makes me cringe til this day, instead of being the "change", that was needed , I would turn a "blind" eye(but guess what I would complain again the next day.) Us humans ,are very smart. We tend to try to solve problems from every possible angle mentally. But I've also noticed that humans also subconsciously try to make a situation complicated, so no futher action is required. So instead of doing the research they'd rather say "I don't know". Which is crazy to me. Everything doesn't need to make sense , for there to be change. if you want to change the world you have to first recognize the problem, and

Yeah it may have been said a million plus times,but in those times, how many of those times were said by you? If you answered none, then why are you still sitting on the idea? And if your reasoning, as to why you haven't spoke your truth yet,being the message has come across too many times before, then your thought process is screwed. No, forreal let's be honest here, we're all grown ! you're absolutely right. It's been SAID a million plus times before. Bravo brownie points for you. But in those "a million plus times", has it been broadcasted, said in a poem, in a script(because you've been wanting to create an awesome movie, but you're too scared), typed in an article, ooohhh what about in book form (you know like those crafy little authors do? ... an ebook is all the new rage, a hard copy for the people who craves meaningful gems at arms reach... a paperback if you yourself loves to fold your book, because you're a multi-tasker...and

Has it really gotten to the point where everyone is wanting to be someone else. Society has tried so hard to disconnect one for one's self. Why is that? Why can't I love myself? Why is it considered being self absorbed ? Has society become so scared, that they believe that being authentic ,will set them back on their path? We weren't created to be the same. We all hold something different , that make us unique. It takes more effort in trying to be someone you're not. Stop trying to fit where you dont belong. It's ok to out grow people and places, especially if they can't fathom the fact that you're a confident force, that doesn't need feedback. most people nowadays are too busy trying to dim other people's light. Stop listening to people, you wouldn't take advice from. Forcing yourself to become a likeable person is very exhausting, even more so when the majority doesn't even like themselves. Never give a self loathing per

Even though it's a windy day, I'm sitting in nature. I felt called to spend less time locked away in my room,but instead indulge myself into the creators/universe's divine creation. This year should and will most definitely be spent doing fulfilling activites that are free. Having a good time doesn't require much. you don't have to spend a fortune. All you really need is good company, and if that is too hard to come by (because believe me nowadays finding good people to be around is almost like looking for a needle in a hay stack), then just show up as you are, because at least you know you aren't going to drive yourself crazy. Nature is free for all, and is used by "special" people who see the beauty of it all. Despite the fact that it's windy and all of papers keep flying away, that isn't enough to make me want to leave. I came to create! We often forget that our true home and our true source of energy comes from the trees,nat

I couldn't sleep ,so I decided to do what most people wouldn't. I chose to get up and grind while most of the world sleeps. Now I could've been one of those people too, drooling while burying my soles deeper into my mattress. But then I kept thinking about one thing, "Fortune favors the brave". How can I want what other people work hard for, barely sleep for, isolate themselves for, without paying the price. Lately I've been realizing that I'm not getting enough done throughout the day. I mean for the most part I tend to mark everything off my to-do list, but I could be doing more. I could be spending way more time perfecting certain tasks. I could be reading twice as more. I could be writing twice as more. I could also be spending more time in nature. Wanting the best out of life, or simply just today ,takes a strong realization that , you have to be willing to do what others wouldn't dare to do. Most people would roll over only half lookin

I want you to ride like your life depends on it. When you come to the realization that no one is coming to save you, no one is coming to change you ,and or tell you to go at it harder, when you truly understand that you'll get up ad take action in anything that applys to your life. Pedal faster. Sweat more. Bypass anything that is draining you. Know that it's ok to not see the end of the road,or to not know how your ideal destination will play out, but always keep in mind that ,it is always more effective to just start by being focused and just being ok with the fact that when you start anything thats new, you're not going to be development right off the bat. How can you put such of a straining on yourself? Wanting to only start when you've reached the point of being overly developed is nonsense and also unreal. For an example, China's overall system isn't the way it is by accident. There were many trials and errors. China by no means started off as

Trying to re-live your past is not supernatural, but very much unnatural. It begins to keep you in a state that's beyond the feeling of "Deja- Vu" because Deja- Vu is the placement of feeling that an individal has done something before, and has been somewhere before in that moment, but in a previous time.It could bring up similar feelings, leaving your mind to point out when you felt that certain emotion before. And sometimes if you're sweeter than the rest Deja- Vu will increase your curiosity of past lives/different dimensions, because our soul alone is raw and a powerful concept that doesn't get enough rep. I totally believe that something can be raw but useless.Anything can be raw and have no other end to tie the two. Re-living your past increases you ability to then re-create your past, while living in the present. Putting [re] in front of anything let's others know that you're [re]doing something, because what you've learned from befor

We're all placed here with a role to play. Some greater than others, but none of these talents are above the next. Which sounds a bit contradicting in a way. What I'm mostly trying to poke at is that, we all have the freedom to express who we truly are. Some of us decide that we're going to be grateful for what's been given, hone our crafts and in doing so we'd most definitely become so sweet that multiple skills would come of that. Others of us would take what's been given and be happy. But here's the scary part, Most of us (human kind) , would get so scared and just hide in a corner,or cherish what they have and yet decide to live a "normal" life in the end, or for some odd reason believe that they are talentless. Now there's nothing wrong with having a normal life , but are you living your life the way you ACTUAL want to live it, or are you too afraid to seek a life that's worth dying for?Let that question marinate for a bit, and I

Creating a brand from stratch is already scary, but doing so while being a girl is way more complicated. Especially living in today's day in time. It has gotten even worse as the generation has continued to move forward. It's to the point where society(Mostly men), have decided that their birth right, includes speaking loud, and mighty proud against women. Mainly getting the message across in, such a negative and demanding way. Examples being, "you're only pretty if ...." , " if you want a man then.....", "women shouldn't do.....", etc. The list could honestly go on and on. By no means is this blog post somely to bash men but..... Things like this need to be said, because this is gotten, too out of hand. I don't know if at this point guys are "trying to help", or if bashing women is way to fun in their eyes, to stop now. But in my opinion, I feel as if a women's business, is just that , A WOMEN'S BUSINE

We've all been scared to start something new, because of the backlash from others right? It's frustrating trying to live your life, and seeing others laughing in the distance. I still find myself letting nonsenses like that get me down, but i've noticed it's not as frequent, as before. I used to literally stop everything before even starting, because the fear of what others would think. I would question myself on whether or not people would make fun of me or not. I was letting people who didn't/shouldn't have a say so ,have a say so. I was letting them run and call the shots. I found myself being the back seat passenger in my life. It was like reading a book on my life, and knowing that I couldn't revise or even create anything within the book. Sometimes it was my own family. So for a long time I let everyone tell me what not to do and question everything in between. I would explain my cause to people who only in return projected their closed mindedne