When's the last time you did something for the first time?

Well, well... well. The best time in my opinion is finally here. I mean tomorrow it'll be here. The best month is tomorrow, forget around the corner, because that was back in January -now March is a gulp away. Spring is currently a sunset and a sunrise away. What have you been working on that'll see the light of day -this March? Have you been utilizing time or wasting it? I hope you've found some sort of spark to keep yourself intact, because even though those around you(who don't have your best interest at heart), would love to see you fail and or give up, you must keep pushing forward and onward. Just like flowers you shall bloom too, but only if you see yourself as someone who has the potential to grow. Growing means evolving, and evolving means sprinking your truth onto everything near and far. Your truth is both your words of wisdom -that's disguised as your worthy opinions, as well as your creativity. You don't have to worry about the world no

WE'RE HERE AGAIN. I hope you've grown, as much as I've grown, but sometimes we tend to travel back to places we thought we outgrew. That's why we're here again. I mean that's why you're here again. Maybe there's more to talk about under the evening lights. Maybe last time wasn't really the last time. I mean clearly. Clearly it'll never end -if we're secretly here to have a good time. See even when I lose myself, I still find ways around it. I still find joy when I'm going over the edge. I'll admit sometimes it's me pushing myself, but this time a certain someone has been given the power to destroy me... but only for a little bit. If I'm choosing today to go on a bender, it's because I very much want to. I've been very productive today. I'm still not done, but I had to go a little insane to get back on track. Let's talk suppressing yourself, and why it's not that bad -when in very bad places. I

I promise, you're not being annoying when you keep showing up -in order to produce the right movements. It's AFTERHOURS baby, which means we can dive deep and however far. I can't promise you, that you'll find yourself -but you will see what I'm saying is not only right... but poetic. I'm my deepest self when no one's watching. What about you, when do you drop the mask? When does your body finally feel like it's time to relax? When does self righteousness go out the window? How do you hold onto your dreams when the world is overly trying to banish -what you have in mind? I actually took the initative to follow a passion, I had been wanting to bring into fruition, and I can't believe how fast it worked out. The universe knows what you want, and somehow gives it to you when you need it most. Sometimes the universe is the very reason, you decided to follow said passion. Think about all those people who revealed their true colors;they didn'

In a world where everyone is choosing the speak and think the same, dare to stand out. Dare to speak the absolute truth, and stray away from everything meant to keep you from evolving. Classify yourself differently, or the world will do it for you, and somehow you won't think the choices society makes for your wellbeing -are even worth being apart of your overall being. I'm enjoying ending this month on a powerful note. I've been introducing an abundance of beautiful ladies with powerful purposes... on purpose. Everything I do, I do with purpose, and I do it on purpose. Knowing the outcome and still deciding to do things anyways, could potentially work out in your favor. I'm going to do you a favor right now. I'm going to introduce MISS TARAJI to the ITGIRL PLATFORM, because I believe you need some sort of spark to get you in your creative mode. You're welcome! If your talents could make you rich, why are you still doing what the untalents are doi

Did you really think I would forget MISS SANAA LATHAN? Please tell me you've seen SANAA, before. Like seriously I know you haven't made it this far, without seeing atleast one movie starring this beauty. Here I'll give you a hint... whether you're choosing to be an alien or a predator -just know one will fall and one will rise. If you're still lost, I promise I can spark some insight into you, before we part ways, because just like you I have places to be. Introducing lovely women to the ITGIRL PLATFORM comes naturally to me. Why might you ask, well I think we all can learn a lot in as little as two minutes. I'm not hoping to keep you for a long time -with each of my blogs, but I am hoping to at least keep you for a good digtital time though. Let's quickly talk why you should be looking into MISS SANAA. Of course she's an icon, but what more can we know about her and or learn from her. She's premiered in original classics such as: The pre

You should never be who others want and or expect you to be. If they want something else, allow them to go find that something else, but don't you ever try and mold yourself to their liking. If certain people liked you before they had sick desires to change you -then why would you actually want to reinvent yourself when the old you was always better? Who others want you to be is never who you want to be, so why would you even entertain the trash that comes out of their mouth. You have to learn the difference between guidance and BULLSH!T, knowing the contrast could potentially save your life. I'm introducing MEGAN GOOD to the ITGIRL PLATFORM... for multiple reasons. She's a threat to insecure guys, and she's a mentor for us ladies... I mean she should be a mentor for us ladies. Wanting it all means also getting things that doesn't align with our higher selves. Don't you dare settle, because once you waste this life you're not coming back again.

I've been introducing some prominent women onto the ItGirl PLATFORM, and today is no different. Maybe you've never heard of this beautiful woman, but that doesn't mean I get to gate keep her. I love taking notes from people before me -who's doing what I want to do, whether that's speaking up more, or learning when to walk away... I can never get enough. Society has a thing for splitting up women, as well as pitting women against each other,and even though it sucks beyond suckish, we don't have to give into anything they're wanting so desperately to dish out. Most people can't even cook, and they're playing a wanna be master chef against other wannabe's. It's digusting at best. AIT-TEE-WAYS what can we as a collective learn about MISS LAUREN LONDON? I'd defintitely say that with every sacrifice comes great rewards, even if we didn't expect the type of tower moment we received. Did Lauren wake up knowing she would lose he

I've been blogging for a year, and I must say one of my favorite segments -is this one right here. I love women and how they operate, especially when they're ready to move on and level up. It's always inspiring especially if us women were always forced to see others waste their life -all for people who wouldn't do the same. I love safe places for women, but that doesn't rule guys out completely. Guys could learn many things, and sometimes they do... but most times they don't -which is fine, but to all my ladies don't feel like you have to stay where others are. I don't know about you, but I'm always two seconds from walking out the door -and that's any door at that. Yeah, Cassie might've stayed in a very public and overly toxic relationships, but she still had the courage to do things on the side. Most girls allow others to completely drain them. I'm talking about the type of draining that leaves you with no will to do anyth

At this point you should know I don't just say things to just say them.I'd like to think I speak with purpose and not just to hear myself talk...because that's just exhausting... like really exhausting. I wanted to bring this segment back to life, because I know just like my MIDNIGHT lovers, I also know their are people who consider AFTERHOURS their zen time. We all need time alone. We all need the type of quiet an overly woke society could never give us. So, while you're the only one up in your household, just know about three houses over someone else is also awake. Like I always say we're all connected. When you feel alone, just know dozens of others feel the exact same way. We're only different -if we don't want to be alike. Let's quietly talk about how you're caring way too much, and how that can get you hurt. Hurt people always hurt spontaneous people. A lot of people are extremely demented. They'll want to take the best parts ou

Today is Friday, and I wonder how you're perceiving today will be like. I mean the morning is over, and we're living within the early afternoon -so of course time isn't completely gone. Even if it is a bit chilly, that doesn't mean you have to stay behind closed doors. Go outside and breathe in some fresh air, because I promise that'll do wonders for your creativity. I wanted to digitally talk about MISS BEYONCE, and how we're all one in the same. No one is above the next person. There's a lot that Beyonce does to inspire, but what can we really learn and use as our foundation to do the same. How can we ourselves inspire the next person? For starters what's your favorite song by the QUEEN BEE, if you were to ask me I'd say my favorite song is "Ring The Alarm" . It's a great song... to me anyways. We should all inspire to be gracious, but also we should never be afraid to rebel. Rebel for a great cause. Beyonce is will aware

Where in your life are you falling behind, and do you believe you can keep up with this blog post -written by your one and only ITGIRL? I'm here to give you insight, that'll for sure spark the right plugs, because you've got places to be -and it's incredibly rude to keep people waiting. We've all got manners, yet so little of us use them. Maybe your inspiration comes from someone before you or someone after -or simply from f*cking up time and time again... whatever it is one can never be too careful . One could never have too much inspiration that soon after equivalates to enlightment... now can they? Try and keep up with what I'm digitally typing away. Let's talk about MISS CIARA, and how she's the right kind of motivation. Ciara is considered to be trouble to the wrong set of people. She's who the world fears. She's unapologetic in so many ways. She's the definition of freedom, and she's also the proper introduction: that&#

You're probably confused. You're probably wondering why stoicism can be the very reason, your life goes from pathetic to unapologetic, or maybe I'm just the silly one who's not giving you your well deserved credit. Let's be perfectly honest here, I think you're overtly smart, because you could be doing just about anything else... but you're not. Instead of being elsewhere you chose to be here. You chose to see past my twitter and or LinkedIn post. You chose to click my link, and it for sure brought you here, and I'm forever grateful. I do what I do to wake humankind, because the way most of us are living is unnatural. Instead of seizing the day, we're allowing meaningless things take control of the day. Why is that? Why are we still allowing unincredible things distract us? Let's digitally talk STOICISM, and why this should be your whole persona -from now on. Here's the quick run down of stoicism, according to Aristotle, "We

I need you to sit here, and soak in what I'm about to tell you, because clearly you're missing the signs. When you become a master of the mind, and not just your own mind -you'll begin to see things for what they truly are. You'll sense things before they happen, you'll in fact spot an enemy before they ever make themselves known. Hell, I'm talking determination in discrimination. Imagine constantly being the star in everyone else's life -even if you try your best to dim your light (which you shouldn't) . Do you think that's a bad thing, or an opportunity to do great things? I use to think me being more... was a bad thing. I use to hate myself for supposedly causing confusion in said environments. I never knew that it was never me -and just other people envying the entirety of me. Look this topic is a killer, it honestly brings me to places I've for sure outgrown. But how can I make up my mind to leave, and just leave you where you no

We all fall, but falling down with your eyes closed won't do you much good either. When you fall where does your mind go, when you've overthought every decision but haven't acted on none? You can't keep yourself where you no longer belong, because that's just madness waiting to be unleased. Tonight isn't the night to fall apart, but to come clean with yourself. What's keeping you numb? What's keeping you ill? What's keeping you scared of flying high -instead of falling behind? Ask yourself this questions on a daily basis -for consistent answers. Why might you ask, because when you know your inner feelings, other people's emotions can't drag you down to their level. C'mon it's common sense. When you strengthen your inner being, you forever save yourself heartaches. If we're falling, we're falling for blissful moments and not stressful ones. Stress kills the weak, and eternally severs the strong. Realize that everyt

Hey. Hey. Hey. How are you? How are you feeling? Are you happy it's Wednesday, or are you just going with the flow, either way let's make the best of it. Who can we make smile today, and who can we remove from our lives knowing that benefits it'll give us? You can either walk the straight path, or the long path... but don't be surprised if the long path takes you everywhere -before you actually get somewhere. Know that nothing's truly broken, because with the right will you can make it anytihng you desire your dreams to be. Let's digitally talk dreams, and how you shouldn't let them die, because dead dreams don't actually send you anywhere but to hell. We're all blessed with dreams,and most of us achieve them while others decieve themselves, until they banish what could've plucked them from their hated environment -to another reality. Some of us already have the required protection, and others of us have to have an abundance amoun

Have you ever wondered why fridays' are so glorious to mankind, or womankind... because let's be honest us women are coming BACK for the throne, that was so disrespectfully taken away from us. I think Fridays' are so remarkable, because it reminds us, of how we felt on Monday. You know that dreadful feeling, most of us feels, because we're not doing what we love, and or adore. I think Fridays' are a beacon to all hopeful souls -that in a way have been feeling an abundance of helplessness. I'm pretty sure Friday's are public awards to everyone with secret missions. What you do, and or feel on this amazing day does indeed set the tone for your weekend, and how suckish would it be -to be the author of another failed task. Here's a bit of food for thought, that's quite tasty. Every thought that a person thinks, has an overflow of potential. There's always a great deal to be made, it a person is willing to follow through with a thought.

I'm still up, and you're still up -so why not digitally read what I'm discreetly wanting to feed you. I've always told myself that Midnight is for the creatives. We own the late nights, and the slow "EARLY AND NIGHTLY" MORNINGS. These kind of hours, are our strongest hours. You can never tell us otherwise, when we're in our creative mode. I honestly don't care how you spend your late and lonely hours, but never question why an artist is up -when the world is considered to be asleep. There will never be a correct answer to your burning question. Forgive us, for not being more formal, because these are our messiest hours. But anyways since you've made it this far, let's talk strangers -and why strangers aren't really strangers. Everyone in our life has a part to play, and not all times will they be the good and or the perfect character. Who we lock eyes with, is always someone we've known before. I have a strong feeling tha

I'm sorry you haven't seen me, or this side of me in a long time, and when I say me I truly mean me. The real me. The one who writes like she hasn't bloomed yet... me. The sad but highly poetic... me. The PINK me. Truth is I've been watching myself slip from all that kept me whole and or solid in 2022. I don't know where I'm going, even though I hold the power to stir myself in the said direction that I want to go in. I don't know where my mind is, and I don't know if i can even call this a PINK BLOG, because right now it's all gray. I'm pretty sure I'm writing this on the wrong day, and I'm just mixing up my emotions... or I'm trying to cover up the fact that I'm just as human as you. Everything that's pretty is also scary inside. What you deem to be magificent may just be a total and complete nightmare. Let's try our best to catch a PINK VIBE, while discussing castaway exiles made by oursleves. Why must we