Keep The Real One's Around!!!!

By Itgirl Overload
You ever wondered why you're always either cold as ice, or feeling like you're walking on ice when around certain people? This feeling seems to overwhelm you most days, if not all days. But you can't seem to figure it out. Or you're avoiding what needs thorough looking into. Why would you consider people to be of any good, if you're constantly feeling lost around them? I thought real friends make you feel whole? Whether you know this or not, the friends that you keep around says a lot about you. Even if you're nothing like your friends, can you say the same after some time?
You shouldn't have to question yourself around your so called "friends". Most times you'll get small clues, as to how these "friends" actually are. But it's always you overlooking the facts. Well let me tell you something. You can't deny the facts. Facts will always be nothing but facts. Too many people have ended up in some sticky situations by those they considered to be of friends to them. You have to know the definition of labels, and use it to your own benefit. Not everyone you meet can be under the "friend" category. That just doesn't make sense. Begin to make room for new friends or those existing friends, that haven't given you any reason to create some distance, and also begin to remove those from your life that no longer resonate. YOU AND ME BOTH KNOW HOW VIRUSES AND PLAGUES SPREAD. IF THE MAIN SOURCE ISN'T ADDRESSED, THEN THE WHOLE CAMP PAYS THE COST... AND DO YOU REALLY HAVE THE TIME TO DEAL WITH THINGS YOU SHOULD'VE ALREADY DEALT WITH???? you know you love me xoxo ItGirl OverLoad xoxo

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