Say less Sundayyyyy!!!!!

By Itgirl Overload
Hey. Hey. Hey. How is your Sunday going? What are your Sunday's like? I always say your Sunday's should be peaceful, but in a way productive. When I say productive, I mean doing what will ensure you the upmost sanity for this upcoming week. So ask yourself what can you do today to help assist you tomorrow? But AIT-TEE-WAYS I wanted to DIGITALLY TALK ABOUT SAYING LESS. Saying less is an important topic, because it can save you from unneeded drama. When you keep everything close to your heart, then who can really shame you and or stop you? I've gotten played time and time again, by those who acted as if they were genuinely interested in knowing what I had/have going on.
I get it, we're taught to tell our plans to others, but what are we really doing that for? Are we doing it to get things off our chest, or are we doing it to get other people's opinions, because if we're doing it for other's and their feedback -then we've already lost -haven't we? Never feel like you have to go to others for recognition, because if that's the case then you'll never get it. Most people want to feel like something that they're obviously not, even if it means using you to feel that sort of high. So that's why I say that it's important to speak less. If you have to journal to get your thoughts aligned then that's what you have to do. IT'S A LONELY ROAD WHEN YOU HAVE TO LOOK TOWARDS THE SILENCE FOR PEACE, BUT IT'S ALSO REWARDING WHEN NO ONE KNOWS YOUR NEXT MOVE!!! How can you be attacked if attackers doesn't know your next move. xoxo ItGirl OverLoad xoxo

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