Toxic Tuesday's~ You'll end up just like them!!!!!

By Itgirl Overload
We can't save them, and somehow you're starting to see that. Wanting to save those who don't want to save themselves, will have you damamging your ownself. At some point you have to stop blaming them, and start blaming yourself. I'm not saying to bury yourself ten feet deep, but I am saying to take responsibility for your actions in their endless games. Their desires are aimless, and you're wanting to actually pinpoint your target -which means your differences will never correlate. You're anything but similar, and knowing that sooner can actually do wonders and not shocking deceits.
You become who you hang around the most. Constantly being around someone, knowing just how hell bound they truly are, can also send you to hell as well. Even if you never intended on going to hell, or even going to hell just yet -could still solidify your presence there. There's no doubt about it. I used to waste my life trying to live within another person's world, and oh how crafty they were with words. This person was someone I couldn't escape, and most people will still say, "I can't really escape them.", because of their position in my life. But here's the thing, you can escape any route and choose to go another way. There's always another way, but there's also always another struggle. You can't possibly want to take control over your life, and still chooose to stay by their side. Choose your own side for once. Have your own back for once, because nobody will ever have you, like you can fully have yourself. YOU SHOULD WANT TO BECOME BETTER THAN THEM AND NOT JUST LIKE THEM!!!! I think you should give up just this once, and figure out your own being. xoxo ItGirl OverLoad xoxo

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