Toxic Tuesday~ The tortures of speaking ill about yourself!!!!

By Itgirl Overload
Doesn't it suck when you can't actually be yourself, because actually being yourself around those who want to deceptively stop you, gives them more of a reason to want to stop you -if not fully end you. We're all grown here, and we're all knowledegable here, which means we're all familiar with the power each word holds. Doesn't playing yourself small make you feel so low? If not to you, it does to me. What do I mean by this... might you be asking yourself. I'm saying that I despise when I have to drain my own energy, knowing that it won't hurt as much than it would -if it was done by a toxic individual. I love to manifest but I can never do it around evil people.
But even though we're learning to not speak to highly of our essence around toxic people, this gives us the perfect time to stay within. When you're constantly around people like this, it's best to keep your insides full. It's best to internally feed yourself, and to externally keep moving forward, because saying too much could leave you open to their toxicity, and we all know the effects that does on a good person. Journal more to keep your inner self at bay. Don't fall into their miserable traps. Don't bask in their negative pots, if you yourself enjoy honey pots. And last but definitely not least; keep your best days hidden from their hungry noses, because if they can sniff it -they'll indeed destroy it. When YOU'RE CURRENTLY IN HELL IT'S BEST TO ACT LIKE YOU'RE IN HEAVEN TO CONFUSE THE DEVIL!!! I'm here to digitally tell you that one day your Tuesday's will be the opposite of toxic, but for now learn to play your cards right. xoxo ItGirl OverLoad xoxo

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