Trauma Felt Tuesday's!!!!

Yes you may know that trauma, has a way of changing your DNA makeup. It may look different for everyone. It may range on a lower and higher scale in all of us -as well. But at the end of the day -we're all fighting something -beyond us. We've all had our far share of BS. And yeah some of us have come to recognized the abnormal traits within us, but what about the ones who haven't figured it out? Not knowing about yourself -could easily be someone else's green light -to rearrange you some more. We're here to heal our trauma -because unhealed trauma could have you staying in places - you should've already left. The blame game will no longer work -but it can set you free, if you're willing to allow yourself to understand, that not everybody is here for a good cause.

It's not your fault. When in the face of terrible people -just know that it's never you, and it's most definitely always them. But to be "perfectly" honest -it becomes a "you" problem, when you're allowing those who loudly despise you -change you. We weren't meant to carry other people's load. We're meant to live our lives to the fullest. We're hear to create. We're creative beings -yet somewhere somehow you've manage to engage in horrible behaviours -orchestrated by digusting people. People that are so okay with dismantling those around them -aren't normal people. Normal people don't do that. Why would another person be so okay with -stopping your creative flow and or energy? Normal people will always help you. They will never stifle you. UNDERSTAND THE GAME. BUT THIS DOESN'T MEAN YOU'RE UNDERSTANDING -TO EVENTUALLY PLAY THE GAME. You have to be wiser. When you're wiser -you'll know when it's time to cut the cords. xoxo ItGirl OverLoad xoxo