You Deserve to Be Free from the Narc/Gas lighter!!!!

By Itgirl Overload
You deserve a life that's free of gaslighting and Narcissism. Life isn't meant to be controlled by those around you. Life is meant to be claimed by the ACTUAL vessel, that just so happens to be living that certain life. It should never be the other way around. Sometimes it may seem like your life is meant to be lived the way that you're currently living it... but it's not. I promise life is fruitful. I promise you that most of the things, that you brush off as normal is definitely beyond normal. No one should be living through you, when it's your life.
You are the author of your story, but it does suck when your life becomes a panel, for others who can't take advantage of their own life. Here's the thing, when you begin to study those who wreak havoc onto your life, you'll slowly begin to realize one thing. These particular people are unhealed. They also tend to be unhealed in numerous of areas in their own life. But I can also say that it can be hard to spot, when you're in the mist of being taken on a miserable ride. I can also say that misery loves company. We've all been told this, and we've all thought about this as well. This statement is beyond true. Miserable people tend to try their hardest to bring you down to their level. Sometimes it's subtle, but most times it's forward and or direct. Listen to me when I say this, DON'T YOU DARE TAKE THE BAIT. It may seem daring to fight for your point of view, while standing in the presence of a narc and or gaslighter, but I promise you it's never worth it. The amount of stress that comes afterwards is never worth it. Use today to protect your energy and or peace. Do things that keep you at an all time high, and forget the rest.
ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS... HIGH VIBRATING PEOPLE WILL NEVER STOOP SO LOW. you know you love me xoxo ItGirl OverLoad xoxo!!!!!

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