DON'T BE A SUCKER TO A COWARD!!!!

By Itgirl Overload
How do you expect to win with a Narcisst? How do you think this will pan out if you're an empath, and they lack empathy for others? It's quite sad that Narcissism is considered a disorder.These people are the worst of the worst.When I look into your eyes, while knowing what type of person you are, and see that you obviously don't care... why would I consider how you feel? They're like dead batteries.These people lack validation in one way or another. Maybe they had a bad childhood, or maybe they had a bad breakup of some sort. Sometimes its just them growing up with no friends, while them promising themselves that things will be different when they grow up. Honestly there are a number of reasons as to why they'd choose to be a pain in someone's A**, but I don't have time to list a whole novel.
I don't like staying on this topic for too long, because it's annoying to think about. For some reason these type of people love to forgive themselves. Did that make sense? Ok back track, can you remember a time that this type of person did something terrible to you? Ok hold that thought. Do you remember telling them how bad that certain thing affected you? So are you catching my drift? Them forgiving themselves for how they treated you. So you being the victim ...should get over it, becase they've already forgiven themselves. Another thing they love doing, is making bad decisions seem logical. You're lost... let me explain this to you. For some reason they love making "Mistakes", but trust me ,repeated mistakes aren't mistakes. When you can predict the future, knowing that this repeated mistake will send you anywhere, but where you need be, then you don't care. For an example, they offered to take you to your appointment ,and when you drive yourself you're always on time. But for whatever reason they wanted to take you, so you let your guard down. You may think "Aww this person is so sweet for taking me." Or if it's a parent you're like "Sweet I don't have to waste my gas." So you're driving and you know an easier way, because the way that they're going will soon get backed up. They'll brush you off completely as if you're stupid(even though you know the way). So fast forward you're extremely late, but they don't seem to care. The whole way back they'll constantly think out loud. This person will make light of, or make sense of what they did. They'll constantly refer to themselves as smart, even though you never called them anything less.They also love to brainwash you into thinking that they've changed. Its always an adventure with these people. So watch your watch. ONCE YOU FULLY LET THEM IN,IT'S HARD TO ACTUALLY GET THEM OUT!!! xoxo Soon to be ItGirl OverLoad xoxo

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